Because it's "Self-Mastery." It does mean we're having personal problems & are being irrational. You have to know that the guy is going to be around.

 I mean, yeah, the United States set-ups sex rings for women. Women don't like our attitudes. I mean, I get it. She gets to do it a few times. Moses, Jesus, & Paul said that you may offer a certificate of divorce. This isn't good, though. Then you started a family & didn't support them or care for them. You're dangerous.